Saturday, August 27, 2011

Syawal 1432H

It's already the end of ramadhan and i would like to wish you all,


Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri!

Maaf Zahir dan Batin.

:)


i'll be in Kedah as usual to celebrate raya but will be back to KL 2nd day of raya and continue celebrating with the rest of the family here. Although i don't have a baju raya and not many kuih raya bought this year, i'm still looking fwd to meet up the relatives and friends! Have fun ppl!

finger lickin good.



my stepmum cooks so well i'm always looking fwd to what she will cook for us.

nasi dagang, lamb chop, fish n chips, sweet n sour fish, spagetthi, garlic bread, honey chicken, nasi beriyani, butter prawns. you name it.

and all she cooked are so damn delicious.

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Salam Ramadhan.




Selamat Berpuasa Everyone! Semoga amalan Ramadhan this time lebih baik dari sebelumnya! Amiiin.

Perceptions and Facts.




i finished reading the book 2 months ago and i wanted to blog a review about it but i'm not really a good reviewer. so i just gotta say, EVERYONE SHOULD READ IT. even the non muslims! it really gave me so much more information of my own religion that i never know before or misunderstood. selama ni kt faham lain rupa-rupanya yg sebenar lain. terlalu mengikut kata-kata ustaz/ustazah/ulama yang kt anggap sentiasa betul. no matter what, we should always refer the truth to hadith/sunnah and al-quran. it's quite a heavy reading but it's worth it. it starts with articles on our daily ibadah such as puasa, solat, mazhab and so on and ended it with a more wider and serious issues like politics. In Malaysia itself pun, people dh terlalu misunderstood with Islam, apatah lagi internationally where Islam is always related with terrorism and what not.

i love to read dr asri's blog and articles because he's the type of ulama' that is so open minded, not judgemental and never been bias to anybody or to any political parties. He let us think and judge for ourselves on what's right or wrong.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Bandung Trip


so me, hani, shira and her sisters went to bandung last week. it was a nice trip indeed. i wasn't that excited at first cuz i dont really fancy travelling just for shopping (as what they always assume what ppl do at bandung) but turns out, i had fun. i didn't target anything specific to shop there except for the kain which i realized its damn cheap wei! i bought chiffon and lining for just rm70 and cotton just rm20+! other than that, i didn't buy that much. just a handbag, clothes and souveniors for ppl. eh byk pulak. i think buying kain there is the one yg sangat2 worth it. other things not that much different.

we have a very nice (and handsome) travel guide and driver there. the experience with the driver was so damn funny mostly bcuz of communication problem. lol. i love the weather there and i kinda love the culture there. very cool and relaxing. the food was awesome too! i might wanna go there again. :) till then, enjoy the pictures!



nasi padang.

tangkuban perahu


serabi

trans studio-the new theme park

bajigur-traditional drink





Sunday, July 10, 2011

things that annoy me.


1. drivers yang tak reti bagi signal, menyusahkan orang. like seriously, how hard can it be?!

2. manusia yang ego tahap gaban. the one that always think he or she is right without even considering other ppl's opinions. when in a fight or miscommunication, he or she doesnt even bother to make things right (say sorry or whatever) for both sides just because they WANT to be right.

3. too judgemental/stereotype ppl. i know we humans easily judge ppl generally but always try NOT to be TOO judgemental. it's freaking annoying.

4. orang yg tknk amik responsibilities when in a group plan/dscussions or whatever. be it office colleagues, friends or families. like don't lah depend on other ppl je. think of something too!

5. org yg kononnye kuat agama tapi terlalu judgemental, which brings us back to no. 3. i know the niat baik is there. you know better and you're afraid that we might end up doing bad things over and over again. but pls, there are specific ways to do that! and remember, it's not easy to change! so bersyukur and bimbing lah walaupun perubahan tu sikit je. and pls lah pray for each and everyone of us.

6. girls that are too gedik. exspecially the ones yg too depending on their bfs/partners. seriously, handbag xleh pegang sndri ke? pintu kene bukakkan? omigoooodd. be independent lah wei. oh yg lelaki nye pn sama, why manjakan sangat ur girls? give them everything they want? that's dangerous, seriously. u're gonna have some problems later.

7. ppl that put so much hatred towards ppl. semua org pun kau tak ngam tak setuju. haiyoo God make us all with our differences lah. accept sudah. kalau tk ngam pun jgn smpai membenci, it's ridicolous! who knows u might have attitude yg lagi teruk than those ppl that u dont even realize. pfft.

8. political scene in malaysia that doesn't make sense at all! which brings us back to some of the points above. and some of the media yang focus just on one side only which is so not fair! u're giving the bad impression on the other side and then the ppl misunderstood. kenapa tak dscuss it openly without being bias? and yeah it's so hard to dscuss politics with other ppl bcuz most ppl tend to think whichever group they are in is totally right.



*sigh*



whatever it is my dear readers, pls lah try not to have all those kind of bad attitudes. i know it's hard to change but at least try. i'm trying too myself. and no matter how annoying ppl can be, let's just improve ourselves to be better and pray for us and them too. Insyaallah.

Monday, May 30, 2011

malam bulan dipagar bintang.



my dad has changed over the years from being such an ego man to a well..i would say..more sensitive man. he's not the type of guy who knows how to express his (love) feelings. he never said sorry if he done something wrong. he never cried.

when my mum passed away, that was the first time in my life i saw him crying. i saw him shed tears. i saw his sad face. i can tell deep down inside how sad he was.

from that moment, i always try to give him what he needs or what he wants, to help him with anything. i'm always the one who teman him to go shopping or dinner. sampai org ingat i'm his young wife and called me datin! :P

he too has been the best dad in the world. being a single father, he tried to juggle between being a father and a 'mother'. i think that's how he got his sensitive side. he becomes more concern about our feelings. he said sorry when when maybe sometimes he offended us. he tries to take care of us just like my late mum did. he helped me with household chores and vice versa. he even cleans the house sometimes even cleans the toilet!


yesterday, he remarried.


i must admit it was shocking and really ackward at first. i was skeptical of his choice. i buruk sangka. after a while, i came to my senses. i shouldn't judge a book by its cover. nobody's perfect.

having a sort of long distance relationship, i once saw and read her postcard with classic malay language to my dad. that was when i realize how sweet they are to fall in love with each other. for her to finally found her jodoh and for my dad to found love and happiness again.

all i'm saying is, i'm so happy to see him happy.

i'm glad that i helped him plan a small, simple yet grand (grand ke?) reception of our family and his close friends. walaupun i bersungguh buat video slide show for him the night before lepas tu tak jadik bcuz of the system (hmph!) i helped him with his music compilation. i even helped him choose the ring!

May this marriage brings happines and joy for my dad and his new wife. smoga sentiasa diberkati, dirahmati & diberi hidayah olehNya, Amin.